itsopink asked: Hey! Just passing to say that i'm totally in love with ur posts, all of them are amazing!! And i'm new here so if you check out my blog and say whatcha think i will love (: xx
T-H-A-N-K-Y-O-U! Your blog is amazingly pink and delightful! Keep it up! <3
party-till-the-sun-doesnt-shine asked: follow for follow my dear? (:
I’ve noticed an odd backlash towards one of my tumblr drawings. There are a bunch of really angry comments posted in the reblogs. Between you and me, it exhausts me to no end when I see how many people still misconstrue feminist ideas and are so ignorantly vocal about it.
Then again, it’s kind of amazing to see how many more people actually get it.
Anonymous asked: That is very cute can you post the drawing alone?
yes of course. I will repost the drawings alone.
Anonymous asked: Can you draw something thT says "everyday is one day less"
I changed it a little… but here it is.
Anonymous asked: can u do a drawing about pets
Yes I can. This is my ambivalence about pets: while I love my pets, I hate the assumptions made about me having pets… especially being a feminist woman who has cats.
Here is my drawing for you:
My ambivalent drawing request: I sometimes think I want a relationship but then I’d be annoyed that I didn’t have enough alone time… Boyfriends can be like having a 2nd or 3rd job! Whats a girl to do? Do I make more effort to seek out a partner & find my true love or **shrug** just face it - my dog’s pretty good company… What else do I need?
Ambivalently Yours: I’ve spent many hours worrying about love getting in the way of life. There is a fine line between being committed to and being consumed by someone else. I’ve definitely been in both of these scenarios.
"intimate relationship can provide a sanctuary from the world of facades, a sacred space where we can be ourselves, as we are…" -John Welwood
Maybe we just have to make time.
Recommended reading : "All About Love" by bell hooks.
Send me your ambivalent drawing requests. <3
Anonymous asked: Can you draw something about being jealous/possessive of someone who isn't yours to be jealous of? If that makes sense! Thank you!
That makes total sense. The next drawing I post is for you. <3
YAY!! My illustrated ambivalent story was PUBLISHED in the online journal FERAL FEMINISMS. <3